Well, I don’t have many followers, but someone has to start somewhere, right? But if you have any friends who love one direction, please tell them about this blog! Thanks! :)
So, this is my first blog, and I want to talk about fandom. It’s amazing, it really is. But I just want to tell you not to get too obsessed, because right when reality kicks in, it hurts. Trust me, I’ve been there, done that. Now I’m not saying to stop loving One Direction, I’m just saying to keep an open mind of wha tcould happen and what couldn’t happen.
Becuse I know how they are on your mind when you wake up, and when you go to bed. But there is something in the back of your mind, that you want to ignore, but sadly you can’t. That my friend, is reality. You love thinking optimistically, but reality likes to think negativley. And right when you think you and that one member of 1D are meant for eachother, and you go on for days, and days, and days, thinking about it, ignoring reality for that long… And then one night it hits you. It’s always suddenly and out of the blue. But it’s the worst feeling ever. You just feel like sitting on the floor crying because you can’t believe you eventhoughtyou had a chance. And don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying you’re not “the one” for that certian member. It’s just the chances are not in your favor on this one.
Sadly, reality is right 99.9% of the time. Yes, all of the guys said that they would date a fan, but when are we actually going to have a chance to “hit it off” with them? I mean at a signing, you just say hi to them while they sign your poster. You don’t have nearly any time to have a conversation with them. There is no luck at a concert either. The only way (I guess) is to stalk (And I mean stalk,stalk) them and find out where they are going for lunch, and then “accidently” bump into them there. But even then, they would probably think your major obsessed and crazy… You don’t want them to think of you like that…… Do you? Well, what I’m trying to say is that unless its fate, they willprobablynot feel the same way about you.
Thanks for reading my blog! I’m sorry if this one was sort of depressing……. But hey, we all have those days, and unfortunitally today was my day. So please tell people about this blog! And make sure to inbox me with any ideas to write about! Thank you so much! :)
One directioner to another
Okay, I’m sorta new to the blogging thing. But I’m not on Tumblr for girly pictures about love, I’m here for my fellow directoners. But I’m just not an ordinary “directioner”, I’m one who knows you,knows how you get those butterflies in your stomach when you hear there names, knows how you get mad at those girls who “love” One Direction, when they never heard any other song besides WMYB, knows how you feel so close to them, but yet so far away.When you feel like you know everything known to man about ALL of them, and they don’t even know your name. I know how it feels to be “Just one of 90 million girls who love 1D”, I know how you feel when you see you’re “boyfriends” beautiful face on another girls tumblr, I know how you feel like you own them, but then get mad when your friend says you don’t, and I know how it feels when you just want to collaps on the floor crying when you can’t stop thinking about you and that certain someone in 1D, but just like that realality sets in like a brick to the face that they are never going to feel the same about you. And I want to help you through it, so follow me, and feel free to ask me anything! Any concerns you might have I would be more than happy to answer, but please no hate :)
Sincerley, one directioner to another <3